Can we please remember that sometimes, sadness is appropriate?
For instance, when someone’s loved one is dying. It’s better to ask why someone is sad before exhorting them to be happy.
Hear hear! Also, can we please remember that often, “not-extremely-cheerful” is appropriate?
For instance, when I’m in line to buy groceries. Or concentrating on my homework. Or waiting for an available computer terminal in the library. It’s better to realize that these activies wouldn’t make a male smile either, and not request a smile from a female.
